This morning after dropping off the kids at school I returned home to find the following scattered in various places on the kitchen island:
- 1 copy of A Crooked Kind of Perfect by Linda Urban
- 1 copy of Diana: Her Life and Legacy by Anthony Holden
- 1 copy of Snook Alone by Marilyn Nelson
- 1 copy of Paper Airplanes: Models to Build and Fly by Emery J. Kelly
- 2 paper airplanes
- 6 ponytail elastics, assorted colors
- 1 sillyband, rainbow color in the shape of an apple
- 1 green plastic strawberry basket filled with tiny slips of paper, a small plastic skeleton, a one dollar bill, a five dollar bill and a spider ring
- 1 pair of mini soccer ball earrings
- 1 spelling test of 25 words with two wrong (substantial and frivolous)
- Lots and lots of eraser dust
In the front hallway I found the following:
- 1 empty Gatorade bottle (lemon-lime flavor)
- 1 shin guard missing it's pair
- 2 pairs of flip flops
- 1 string cheese wrapper
- 3 ponytail elastics, black
- 2 pairs of socks, (1 yellow, 1 rainbow stripes)
In the girl's bathroom I found the following:
- 3 hairbrushes
- 1 lipgloss, Burt's Bee's, pale pink, top missing
- 2 drops of lavender scented lotion
- 1 pair of earrings, peace sign-shaped
- 1 lone earring, rubber duck shaped
- 1 pair of earrings, heart shaped, sparkly
- 1 necklace, initial "A"
- 4 ponytail elastics, assorted colors
In my son's bathroom I found the following:
- Lots and lots of toothpaste smeared in the sink
- 8 dixie cups filled with water sitting on the closed toilet (???)
There are days when I return home to this and I am super annoyed. I harumph my way around the house returning things to their proper place. But today I felt all sentimental and tender about these objects. They are the odds and ends of girlhood and boyhood, the talismans of mothering. They are the good stuff.










3 comments:
What beautiful perspective! Thanks for that today.
this was completely amazing for me to read this ... thank you for sharing!! I needed a change of perspective as well!
Thank you SO much for this perspective! I LOVE this time with my Littles, and I can't wish away the mess. My grandma used to tell my mom: you'll miss this. My grandma used to leave our toys scattered through her house for days after we left. Ahhhh how sweet knowing that is now, now that I'm a mom.
I will tolerate the mess. (Though every bathroom smells like overpowering PEE. Do they boys pee in EVERYTHING?!)
Thank you for a WONDERFUL post!
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